THE OTHER WOMAN: BEING A MISTRESS IS DEGRADING

The other woman/mistresses/being a mistress

Some women love being ”the other woman”. They love the ‘attention’ they get from their married-man lovers and the seemingly hassle-free style of their relationship.

While mistresses often feel like they can ‘have their cake and eat it too’, there are usually a lot of regrets that follow this self-degrading choice. They may later wake up to the painful reality that they have broken another woman’s heart, have negatively impacted on children’s emotional security, have dislocated a family, - and all these for a loser who will continue to cheat on them as he has done before.

Some mistresses later regret having wasted time with someone who would never commit to them. Most are deceived by the lies their ‘knight in shining armor’ tells about his wife. Married men who have mistresses tell their mistress how bad their wives are and how they intend to divorce them. It’s about time women stopped compromising their humanity and their pride for a married man’s empty promises.

Consider change if you are a mistress or the other woman: why you need to change and how

What mistresses see as incentives for being the other woman, are actually disincentives if you examine everything closely.

You are devaluing yourself if you allow yourself to be a second choice

Most cheating husbands never actually leave/divorce their wives

Your married lover is a liar and is cheating on his wife - he will do the same to you – as a mistress or as a ‘future wife’

Love and Respect yourself enough to get involved with men that are available – men who will give you 100% of their romance time

DATING AFTER DIVORCE IS BETTER THAN BEING THE OTHER WOMAN

DATING A MARRIED MAN/WOMAN IS NOT MORAL

TRIAL SEPARATIONS - DON'T GET A MISTRESS