"JEALOUS SPOUSES": HOW TO RECOGNISE JEALOUSY AND HOW TO DEAL WITH IT

"JEALOUS SPOUSES" - jealousy in a relationship/marriage

Jealousy and Snooping behaviour are related and both are a result of high levels of mistrust which can either be triggered by prior mistrust-inspiring behaviour or by low self esteem. It can really drive the partner that is being “investigated” to the edge. It is also draining and leaves the snooper unhappy and suspicious of every behaviour, move, action or conversation.

"Signs of a jealous partner/spouse" or "signs that they are a snooper"

"Signs of a jealous partner/spouse" or "signs that they are a snooper". The following are signs that your partner, girlfriend, boyfriend, husband or wife maybe extremely jealous and snoopy

1. He/she checks the speedometer readings in your car

2. Counting your condoms

3. Scrutinizing your banking accounts and your store slips/receipts

4. Calling people in your call lists

5. Asks probing questions about everything

6. Pries on your activities

"Counselling for extreme snoopers or extremely jealous significant others"

"Help for extreme jealousy and posessiveness"

To be happy in life, you have to set some ground rules and then live your life freely. You don’t have to follow your partner – unless of course you have a strong case and would like to satisfy yourself that you know what you know and can move forward with grace.

There is healthy jealousy, and there is unhealthy jealousy. Jealousy has lousy in it, do not let it control you by being snoopy. It can work for your marriage if you are healthily jealous - not snoopy, not posessive, not impacting negatively on your significant other's life and not abusing them.


Jealous partners need to communicate more

Some jealous spouses become possessive and abusive

If you have an opposite gender friend, be open to your partner

Jealousy often emanates from unhealthy thoughts

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