What do you think of people? Of yourself?

In this Issue of Let-us-relate newsletter:

1. Our 2 for 1 special is over, but Sitesell has another one going on!

2. Theme Quote by Shakti Gawain

3. What are you thinking?

4. Our freebies

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1. Hi Ho Ho! Get back to work special is here!

Just when our special ended, Sitesell launched their "Get back to work special." Details in www.relationship-affairs.com and http://www.sitesell.com/Offers1.html

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2. Well-said by Shakti Gawain

"The most powerful thing you can do to change the world is to change your own beliefs about the nature of life, people, reality--to something more positive--and begin to act accordingly" -Shakti Gawain-

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3. So what's in your mind <>?

Someone said that the greatest discovery of our generation is that us, human beings can significantly alter our lives by altering our state of mind.

This is so often true in relationships - be they romantic, work, business, spiritual or social relationships.

How and when do you conclude that a person is not nice or not worthy of your time or your friendly engagement? They say first impressions last but it is your own decision really. It is up to you to decide whether you will draw conclusions about a person based on what they are wearing when you first meet them; whether they brought a gift or not to your meeting/date and so on.

People become (to you)what you think of them; and so do you! You become what you think of yourself too. If you think you are no longer worthy of anyone's love and attention; if you think your partner/people have a dozen reasons not to like you; that you are not interesting, you are unattractive, or stupid - your partner/people will get those messages. Your thoughts and beliefs about yourself will then be validated and you'll sink deeper into self loathing.

If you think your partner/spouse is useless and incapable of loving you - that is the message they will receive. Likewise, if you start thinking 'warmly' about them, reminding yourself of all the good they have in them and all the little things they do - you will begin to act & treat him/her differently and s/he will start treting you differently too. Everyone loves to be appreciated and if you disregard the small gestures from your partner/spouse/people, while aiming for the biggest ideals, you are damaging your chances of ever attaining those ideals.

If you think you are in love/not in love, you are most probably right. Think of the small actions, words & gestures as wonderful, interesting, thoughtful and romantic - it will make your life much more pleasurable!

Read more about thoughts in www.relationship-affairs.com/Thoughts.html

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Until next time, Stay Blessed!

Sofia,

www.relationship-affairs.com

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